Reigniting the Sacred Flame: Beltane, Ancestral Healing & the Return of the Wise Woman

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As the Wheel turns and the wild green world bursts into bloom, Beltane (pronounced BEL-tay-nuh or BEL-tuhn) arrives with her fire and flowers—a threshold moment where spirit and matter dance, where the veil thins, and where we are invited to remember our sacred belonging.

Beltane, rooted in ancient Celtic tradition, marks the midway point between spring equinox and summer solstice. It’s a celebration of fertility, passion, and the divine union of land and sky. Bonfires once blazed across the Irish hills to bless the cattle, protect the crops, and awaken the vital energies of life. And today, this sacred time continues to offer us medicine for modern disconnection, inviting us to reignite what has gone cold in our souls.

This year, my own Beltane journey is deeply tied to ancestral remembrance, spiritual preparation, and the reclamation of the Wise Woman within—not just for myself, but for those I serve.


A Full Pilgrimage, A Full Heart

In just a few weeks, I will lead an intimate group of brave and beautiful souls on a sacred pilgrimage to Ireland that we started in February as part of a six-month journey.

This year’s journey is full, and my heart is overflowing with gratitude for those who said yes to this deep ancestral healing. We will walk the lands of the goddesses, tend the wounds of lineage, and reclaim the stories that patriarchy, colonization, and religious indoctrination tried to erase.

Though registration for this year’s pilgrimage is closed, you can join the waitlist here to be among the first to receive details for future journeys. If your bones are whispering soon, listen.


Beltane Rituals: Fire, Flowers & the Feminine

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In preparation for this sacred work, I’m weaving in traditional Irish customs and rituals that connect me to both land and lineage:

Sacred Fire & Candle Ceremony: I’ll light a ceremonial fire (or candle altar) to honor the ancestors, set intentions for the coming season, and call in the spirits of protection, growth, and fierce compassion.

Floral Offerings: Hawthorn branches, primrose, and rowan berries—plants deeply tied to the fae and Irish folklore—will be gathered and offered at thresholds: doorways, sacred trees, and the altar.

Earth & Body Connection: Walking barefoot on the land, listening to the heartbeat of the earth, and placing my prayers into the soil, I allow the land to speak through me—and to hold the healing for all those I work with.

Water Blessings: As Beltane is also associated with sacred wells and the divine feminine, I’ll offer water rites for cleansing, fertility, and renewal—sprinkling blessed water on tools, hands, and heart.


Supporting the Rise of the Wise Woman

While the pilgrimage is full, there are still powerful ways to connect and be supported in your own sacred path this season:

Accessing the Wise Woman Within – October 5th Retreat

A one-day immersive experience where we gather in sisterhood to remember, reclaim, and embody the healed and whole grandmother wisdom within.

Featuring vibrational sound healing, tea ceremony, ancestral rituals, and sacred circle. Facilitated by Christel Poirier and Laura Bonetzky-Joseph


Buffalo Drum-Making Workshop – November 2nd with Janee King

Craft your own medicine drum in sacred ceremony, connecting to the heartbeat of the Mother and the rhythm of your soul.

Perfect for those called to deepen their healing journey through sound and ritual.


Women’s Circle Gatherings

Monthly support and healing circles to connect, share, release, and rise—especially needed during these turbulent times when so many of us are holding so much.


Each of these offerings is an extension of my life’s work: to hold space for deep healing, ancestral remembrance, and spiritual reclamation rooted in authenticity, integrity, and love.


A Personal Invitation

Whether you join us in circle, drum your prayers into being, or light your own Beltane flame at home, I invite you to pause and ask:

  • What sacred flame within me is asking to be reignited?
  • What wisdom have I buried that now wants to rise?
  • Where can I say yes to beauty, pleasure, and purpose?

Let this be the season you remember your magic. Let this be the year you return to the earth, to the ancestors, and to the Wise Woman within.

With fire, flowers, and fierce love,
Laura Bonetzky-Joseph

A multi-generational and multi-disciplinary approach to healing

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Beltane Blessings


Happy Beltane blessings from this crone witch and multigenerational healer and intuitive to you and yours.

There is so much energy swirling around since the spring equinox bringing up lots of old wounds to be healed or released, healing ancestral lines and reclaiming lost or stolen parts of ourselves and our ancestors.

Heck it is a dragon year to boot and so far, 2024 has not failed to disappoint us in forcing us to level up.

Are you feeling this too?

Well Beltane is another celebration on the Pagan wheel to consider honoring and celebrating if you do not already.

What is Beltane?

Beltane is the Gaelic May Day festival, a quarter holiday between the spring and summer equinoxes in the northern hemisphere on May 1st which marks the beginning of summer.

For the Irish, it is usually called Lá Bealtaine (“day of Beltane”), while the month of May is Mí Bhealtaine (“month of Beltane”).  For many modern pagans, witches, Irish, and Celts, it is a day for bonfires, rituals, and celebrations such as dancing around the maypole.  

Beltane is mentioned in the earliest Irish literature and is associated with important events in Irish mythology. It was also known as Cétshamhain (‘first of summer’).

Beltane Historically?

This was a time when fires were lit in the local community. Like many other indigenous spiritual practices, the fire, smoke, and ash from these fires were considered cleansing, purifying and healing and deemed to have some sort of protective powers.

The cattle were driven out to the summer pastures through this smoke as one of many rituals performed to protect cattle, people and crops, and to encourage growth.

These gatherings would be accompanied by a feast, and some of the food, drink would be offered to the aos sí, holy wells visited, flower wreaths worn, songs sung, and folks danced around the maypole.

Beltane Today and How I Am Celebrating

As I prepare for to lead a small intimate pilgrimage to Ireland on May 16th, I am witnessing such beauty in the desire to heal ancestral lines and reclaim parts of ourselves stolen as a result of systemic oppression by the colonizers of Britain and Rome as well church and religious persecution and indoctrination to the indigenous Irish.

I have been sitting with some of the Irish sovereignty goddesses, Queen Maeve, The Morrigan, and Brigid over the last year on a more intensive devotion in preparation of this pilgrimage.

If you have ever worked with the Morrigan, she is NO joke. She will hold your arssss accountable and will request tasks to do as a steward. That’s all I will say about that in a blog post hahahaha.

When in proper relationship and devotion, it is amazing how much the nature spirits – the tree spirits, the water spirits, the fire spirits, the earth spirits – have come more alive, and many of which are not wanting me to share some of the magic I have been privileged to experience and befriend.

I have always been connected to these spirits, but there is something so profound that gets amplified when you are setting intentions before a powerful pilgrimage on sacred lands in Ireland.

I recently sat in with a group of wise indigenous Irish women talking about language as a tool for healing. We forget that until Christianity was imported into Ireland, the indigenous Irish were an oral community very much similar to the Japanese when Buddhism was imported.

In Japan, I was taught how words created spiritual power, and it is a topic most Americans I think struggle to truly understand and comprehend unless we see it from a negative such aspect as gaslighting.

It is not just what you say, but the energy, frequency, and vibration behind the words that has the ability to create what many would call, magic.

Being in ceremony with these powerful women in Ireland (me virtual), I learned a lot about my struggles with language – from being able to learn a foreign language (even though English was not the native tongue of my ancestors) to bizarre physical issues in the throat that causes me to choke on saliva and water with a root scabbed over wound of physical domestic violence and the silencing of my voice by family courts when seeking safety for me and my children from abuse.

I had that lightbulb moment where I recognized this is one area I have been struggling for most of the last 15+ years in a different light that what I already knew, and it will be interesting to see what surfaces when I get to the motherland of my Irish ancestors in a few weeks.

For now, I will celebrate Beltane at home in the quiet with a fire, ceremony, offerings, intentions, prayers, and more that will not be publicized to keep the sacredness in the container leading up to the pilgrimage to Ireland clear and devotional in as pure of way possible.

Traditions that still remain today that I might still do too if called is to put out cut flowers on your front stoop to ward off evil or malevolent spirits. This is a custom still practiced today by some indigenous Irish I know from the Western part of Ireland.

How will you celebrate Beltane?

Is this something calling you home from your ancestors?

Are you an admirer of anything pagan or animistic and reclaiming the indigenous ways of what is now Europe and UK?

Share in the comments. I am curious.